The harsh reality is that time never stops. No matter how much we yearn to press rewind or hit the pause button, it cannot be done. What’s done is done, and we can only make the best out of the situation.

When someone passes, it serves as a reminder for everyone to reassess what is truly important in life. In our hectic high school lives, we sometimes get caught up on trivial matters and forget to spend time to connect with those we care about.

Think about it. When you think back to freshman year, do you still remember what unit, what day, what period you failed that math test? Or, do you remember having a heart-to-heart with your friend after that first breakup? When you are reflecting on your actions, don’t dwell on things that won’t even matter in five years from now. Sure, maybe failing that test was devastating, but compared to ending a friendship simply because you didn’t make time for your friend, which is worse?

Life is too precious to waste getting caught up on our misadventures. Things may not always go our way, but that doesn’t mean that it never will. There are always ways for us to overcome adversity. Cherish your friends. It’s times like these that we need each other the most.

Sometimes people just need to vent. That’s just a part of human nature. We need to get things off of our chests and when we do, we feel so much better. Trust me. We all just need someone who will listen, and friends are supposed to always have your back. A phone call, an email, a text message—that’s all it takes to comfort a friend. Five minutes out of your life can strengthen your friendship so much more.

And when your friendship is on the rocks? Well, take a step back and think about the very first time you met the person. There must have been some reason for you to become friends with the person. If you have been friends with them for a long period time, believe in the friendship.

Sure, we all have fights or misunderstandings once in a while, but that does not mean that the friendship should end then and there. A friendship is like a plant. You need to take time to nurture it. If it begins to wilt, don’t panic and just give up. All it needs is a little water and sunlight to kick that photosynthesis into action.

We should remember these simple things in our daily lives. We should be able to feel the sense of belonging in a community every single day. Don’t hesitate to reach out to others, even those you don’t know. Who knows, once you start talking it up, you might even discover your new best pal. Step out of your comfort zone, and that will make all the difference.

I will take my first step.

Hi, my name is Joyce, and I would be happy to talk to you if you ever need anyone to talk about anything.